Gay Desert Guide: Week of Mar 17, 2025

My heart sank when I glanced at Sunday’s Desert Sun obituaries and saw the face and name of a man you are likely familiar with if you listen to KGAY.

Ray Smythe (S-M-Y-T-H-E as we spelled it out on the radio ads) brought his books about dealing with grief to a worldwide audience. The self-published author wrote of the heartache of losing his partner, Dr. Steve Oliver, of 49 years. So adamant that others deal positively with loss, he advertised his books on KGAY over the past few years and was quite successful.

Ray would come into our studios to record his own commercials. He always had his signature business-sized cards with dozens of inspirational quips and quotes printed to share with me and our staff. Just Thursday night, I gave one to John Taylor as a part of his birthday gift. Ray’s musing came from a variety of sources such as Joan Rivers, Betty White and Will Rogers. I have so many of them stashed around home and work that they just show up at opportune times. It gives me pause — and usually a smile — to read the short sayings that he hand-selected.

Smythe also wrote for The Desert Sun after a long career as an educator on the west coast. He must have been quite the role model, as he was awarded Teacher of the Year honors many times over. According to the Sun’s obituary, a Celebration of Life is planned for the Fall. I’ll be there, grateful for a gay man who impacted the lives of not only the students he taught, but also those in our community and around the world.

From his first book, Coping With Grief, he quotes Dr. Seuss: “Don’t cry because it is over. Smile because it happened.”

Brad Fuhr, your Gay Desert Guide on KGAY 106.5 Palm Springs

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MON: St. Patrick’s Day

Celebrate the luck of the Irish this St. Patrick’s Day with lively festivities, green-themed drinks, and a night of fun! Whether you’re looking to raise a pint of Guinness, enjoy festive cocktails, or just soak in the party atmosphere, our Gay Desert Guide Bars/Nightlife Channel has you covered. Check out the Happy Hour and Bar Events calendar to find all the best spots and happenings across the desert to make your St. Patrick’s Day unforgettable. Cheers to a shamrockin’ good time! ?

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MON-WED: Fashion Week El Paseo Continues

The West Coast’s largest fashion week runs through Wednesday, March 19 at The Gardens on El Paseo in Palm Desert. This world-class event offers an inspiring and immersive fashion experience featuring cocktail receptions, pop-up shops, celebrity meet-and-greets, and more. Highlights of the remaining days include: Running Wild on El Paseo on Monday, a showcase by Istituto Marangoni Miami on Tuesday, and a special presentation by Saks Fifth Avenue on Wednesday. Attendees can indulge their inner fashionista celebrating the newest collections from the industry’s most prominent influencers and innovators. Get tickets

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TUE: Tastes & Sounds of Cathedral City

On Tuesday, March 18, from 5:30–7:30 pm, join the Tastes & Sounds of Cathedral City at the Cathedral City Community Amphitheater for an evening of live music by Radio Ready and enjoy delicious offerings from TKB Food Truck. This free weekly event is a wonderful way to connect with the community, savor great food, and experience local talent in a beautiful outdoor setting. More info

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The Provocative History of Political Cartoons in America

Join the Palm Springs Public Library and the Coachella Valley Journalism Foundation for “Laughing Out Loud: The Provocative History of Political Cartoons in America” on Tuesday, March 18 from 6–7:30 pm, in the library’s Learning Center. Presented by award-winning editorial cartoonist Mike Thompson, this free program explores the evolution of political cartoons from Ben Franklin to Donald Trump. More info

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WED: The Center Women’s Social

Don’t miss The Center Women’s Social at The Colony Palms Hotel and Bungalows on Wednesday, March 19, from 5:30–7 pm. This monthly event, held every 3rd Wednesday, is the perfect opportunity to make meaningful connections, build friendships, and enjoy a fun evening with like-minded women. Come and join the community for a delightful and engaging social gathering! More info

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WED: Gregory Douglass LIVE

Gregory Douglass performs live at Revolution Stage Company on Wednesday, March 19, from 7–9 pm. Known for his emotional and evocative pop sound, Gregory Douglass’ performances captivate fans of Rufus Wainwright, Tori Amos, and Jeff Buckley. This concert promises an intimate evening of soul-stirring and refreshingly honest music. Get tickets

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WED: Marc Antonelli

Experience the exceptional talent of Marc Antonelli as part of the Desert Candlelight Concert Series at the Mary Pickford Theatre on Wednesday, March 19 at 7 pm. Renowned for blending classical opera with a contemporary twist, Antonelli’s performance promises a captivating fusion of timeless arias and bold innovation. With his powerful voice and dynamic stage presence, he redefines opera, creating an unforgettable evening that honors tradition while embracing modern artistry. Get tickets

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THU: Harmony for Everyone

Enjoy an evening of delightful a cappella harmony at the Harmony for Everyone Show with the Coachella Valley Barbershop Chorus on Thursday, March 20 from 6:30–8 pm. This free event features performances by the full chorus, along with special appearances by The Cactus Crooners Quartet and The Lady and the Tramps Quartet, offering a mix of new and classic favorites sung in beautiful 4-part harmony. More info

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STARTS THU: Palm Desert Food & Wine

Indulge in a spectacular culinary experience at Palm Desert Food & Wine, from Thursday, March 20–Sunday, March 23, in the picturesque El Paseo shopping district. This four-day event, produced by Palm Springs Life magazine, features a diverse selection of mouth-watering eats, premium wines, hands-on cooking demonstrations by celebrity chefs, and more. Highlights include a James Beard Gourmet Four-Course Luncheon, grand tastings of over 60 wines, craft brews, IPAs, and draught ciders, and exclusive events like a Cheese Masterclass with Afrim Pristine and a Celebrity Chef Date Farm Tour. Enjoy some of the most delicious offerings in the Coachella Valley! Get tickets

Indulge in the Food & Wine festival’s Saturday Grand Tastings on Saturday, March 22, from 11 am–3 pm at The Gardens on El Paseo on the upper-level parking deck. This event features delectable bites from a diverse range of restaurants, celebrity chef demonstrations, and unlimited samples of premium wines, beers, and spirits. Participants can interact with vintners and chefs to discuss their offerings. The chef demonstration schedule includes culinary stars such as Curtis Stone, Aarti Sequeria, and Brooke Williamson, offering unique and exciting demos throughout the day. Get tickets

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This Week at the McCallum

This week at the McCallum Theatre brings a diverse lineup of performances starting with Ballet Hispánico on Monday, March 17 at 7 pm, celebrating Latino culture through innovative dance. On Wednesday, March 19 at 7 pm, enjoy Material Girls, a high-energy tribute to pop icons like Adele, Lady Gaga, Madonna, and Cher. On Friday, March 21 at 8 pm, experience Mandy Patinkin in Concert – Being Alive, showcasing Mandy Patinkin’s favorite Broadway and classic American tunes. On Saturday, March 22 at 7:30 pm, the Israel Philharmonic with Lahav Shani performs symphonies by Mendelssohn and Tchaikovsky. The week concludes on Sunday, March 23 at 3 pm with The 69th Edition of It’s Magic!, a dazzling all new revue featuring award-winning magicians. Get tickets

THU: Home Again – A Tribute to the Music of Carole King

Experience the magic of Carole King’s timeless music with Home Again – A Tribute to the Music of Carole King at the McCallum Theatre on Thursday, March 20 at 8 pm. This captivating performance, featuring Deb De Lucca, her band, and The Desert Symphony, celebrates Carole King’s extraordinary legacy. From her iconic hits to the songs she wrote for artists like The Shirelles and The Monkees, this tribute offers a beautiful journey through her expansive and influential repertoire. Get tickets

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ALL WEEK: Desert X

Explore the fifth edition of Desert X in the Coachella Valley now through May 11. This outdoor art exhibition delves into the nonlinear narratives of time, with installations across several valley cities that reflect on the desert’s deep time evolutions and intertwine ancestral wisdom with contemporary visions. Check out descriptions of all the pieces and photos from the installations [here]. The Desert X 2025 Hub is hosted at the Thompson Palm Springs. Hub visitors can chat with knowledgeable volunteers, browse merchandise, and enjoy a meal or cocktail at Lola Rose before heading to the exhibition. Printed programs and field guides will be available for pickup at the Hub during open hours or at the front desk throughout the exhibition. Hub hours are Fridays from 2–5 pm and Saturday & Sunday from 10 am–5 pm. More info

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THEATRE

God of Carnage

Desert Ensemble Theatre Company presents God of Carnage from March 14–23 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center. A playground altercation between two boys brings together their four parents for a meeting to resolve the matter. As the meeting progresses, and the rum flows, tensions emerge and the gloves come off, leaving the couples with more than just their liberal principles in tatters. Our theatre reviewer Stephen Radosh says “God of Carnage is a masterclass in modern theatre, blending humor, drama, and a sharp critique of societal norms.” Read his full review and Get tickets

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How To Succeed in Business Without Really Trying

Revolution Stage Company presents How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying from March 12–29. Winner of Tony and Pulitzer Prizes, this sharp and witty production takes you on a comedic journey through the corporate world, showcasing the art of playing the game with charm and humor. Get tickets

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Jesus Christ Superstar

CVRep presents the iconic rock musical Jesus Christ Superstar from March 5–23. This semi-immersive version of the classic 1970s musical tells the story of the struggles between Jesus, Judas, Mary Magdalene, his disciples, followers, and the Roman Empire, entirely through song. Audiences will experience well-known numbers such as “Superstar,” “I Don’t Know How to Love Him,” and “Gethsemane” in a new and innovative way. Our theatre reviewer Stephen Radosh says “You can see and feel the emotional depth and raw energy in every performance, bringing the characters to life in a way that is both heartfelt and unforgettable.” Read his full review and Get tickets

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Tootsie the Musical

Desert Theatreworks presents Tootsie the Musical from March 7–30 at the Indio Performing Arts Center. This laugh-out-loud extravaganza, inspired by the Academy Award-winning film starring Dustin Hoffman, is a heartfelt love letter to the stage. Meet Michael Dorsey, a talented actor known for job-hopping. When faced with a career crisis, Michael transforms into the fabulous actress Dorothy Michaels. Suddenly, he embarks on a wild Broadway adventure, winning hearts, stealing scenes, and catching feelings for his leading lady, Julie. Michael discovers that juggling dual identities is no easy feat. Get tickets

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Honky Tonk Angels

Desert Theatreworks presents Honky Tonk Angels, a musical extravaganza, playing through March 30 at the Black Box Theatre. This lively show features three fearless women from diverse backgrounds chasing their dreams to Nashville. With 30 timeless country hits like “Stand By Your Man,” “9 to 5,” and “Harper Valley PTA,” this toe-tapping journey celebrates sisterhood, resilience, and the power of music. Get tickets

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Victor/Victoria

Palm Canyon Theatre presents their production of Victor/Victoria, running from March 14–April 6. Victoria Grant finds stardom by masquerading as “Count Victor Grazinski,” a man performing as a female impersonator. When macho businessman King Marchan develops feelings for “Victor,” and Victoria reciprocates, it sparks a whirlwind of complications. Get tickets

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The Real Black Swann

Experience the captivating performance of The Real Black Swann at Revolution Stage Company on Saturday, March 22, from 7:30–9:00 pm. Les Kurkendaal-Barrett brings to life the incredible true story of William Dorsey Swann, a former slave who became the Queen of Drag in the late 1800s. Swann bravely fought against racism and homophobia, earning his place in history as the first known gay activist. Get tickets

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Black Butterfly, Jaguar Girl, Piñata Woman, and Other Superhero Girls, Like Me

Experience the powerful story of resilience and identity with Green Room Theatre Company Coachella Valley’s production of Black Butterfly, Jaguar Girl, Piñata Woman, and Other Superhero Girls, Like Me on Friday, March 21 at 6pm, and Saturday, March 22 at 1 pm at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Indio. Directed by David Catanzarite and Rocio Muñoz, this bilingual play by award-winning playwright Luis Alfaro explores the lives of four teen girls navigating adolescence in East Los Angeles. Get tickets

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ALSO THIS WEEK

Tuesday, March 18
Walk of the Stars – Mary Bono | 2 pm Downtown Palm Springs
Tupperware Time Warp w/Ethylina Canne | 7–8:30 pm at Desert Theatreworks
Movies in the Park: Hook | 7 pm at the Palm Springs Downtown Park

Wednesday, March 19
Colorectal Cancer Awareness Program | 6–7:30 pm at Mizell Center

Thursday, March 20
Wine & Design | 5:30–7:30 pm at Modern Home2 Design Showroom
VillageFest Street Fair | 6–10 pm Downtown Palm Springs
David Maiocco as Liberace | 8 pm at Piazza de Liberace

Friday, March 21
Thermal Club INDYCAR Grand Prix | Fri-Sat-Sun at the Thermal Club
Palm Springs Drone Fest | Fri-Sat-Sun at Palm Springs High School
Wrangler Professional Bull Riders: Unleash the Beast | Fri-Sat-Sun at Acrisure Arena
An Evening with Caroline Rhea | 7 pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center
Dionne Warwick | 8 pm at Spotlight 29 Casino

Saturday, March 22
Rancho Mirage Artists Tour | 10 am–4 pm at Rancho Mirage Library & Observatory
The Dirty Show 3.0 with Skyler Gentry | 7–8:30 pm at Dietlart Gallery
Country Dance Saturdays: Beginner Waltz with Jan Alden | 7 pm at Step by Step

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THIS WEEKEND

SOAR! Ice Dancing

Experience the magic of figure skating at SOAR! presented by Ice Dance International on Sunday, March 23 from 3–4:30 pm at the Berger Foundation Iceplex. This theatrical performance features a star-studded cast, including Olympic Champion Gabriella Papadakis, two-time U.S. Champion Alissa Czisny, and LGBTQ advocates Karina Manta and Ryan Dunk. Hosted by skating legend Dorothy Hamill, the show combines artistry and athleticism in mesmerizing ensemble performances that will leave you breathless. Get tickets

Brothers of the Desert Annual Wellness Summit

Join the Brothers Of The Desert Annual Wellness Summit from Friday, March 21–Sunday, March 23 at the Riviera Resort and Spa in Palm Springs. The event begins with the “Meet the Speakers” opening reception on Friday from 5:30–7:30 pm. The 6th Annual Wellness Summit takes place on Saturday from 8:30 am–4:30 pm, focusing on Black gay men and allies, with inspiring keynote presentations and workshops. Keynote speakers include George M. Johnson, Dr. David Malebranche, and Bishop OC Allen, hosted by Nathan Hale-Williams. The weekend continues with The Real Deal: An Authentic Soul Food Brunch on Sunday from 12–1:30 pm at the Mizell Center, followed by Regina Taylor‘s one-woman play EXHIBIT from 2–4 pm. More info

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ONE-PS Picnic and Community Expo

Get ready for a day of fun and community spirit at the 16th Annual Organized Neighborhoods of Palm Springs Picnic & Community Expo! On Saturday, March 22, from 11 am–2 pm, head over to Ruth Hardy Park for a free lunch provided by local businesses, exciting games, crafts, and a youth hoops competition with prizes. Don’t miss the “Pooch Parade & Costume Contest” at 11:45 am and the chance to win $100 in the “Best Neighborhood Booth Contest.” Enjoy great exhibits, information booths, and balloon rides starting at 10 am (weather permitting). It’s a fantastic opportunity to connect with neighbors and celebrate the Palm Springs community! More info

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Branden & James: Cinematic

On Friday, March 21, experience the musical magic of Branden & James at The Purple Room with their new show, “Cinematic.” Fresh off their Carnegie Hall debut, this Palm Springs favorite duo will captivate you with an epic performance celebrating iconic songs and themes from The Silver Screen and blockbuster movie musicals, with a dash of nostalgic TV themes making a special appearance. Dinner at 6 pm, show at 8 pm. Get tickets

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John Taylor Out and About at Miralon

Join John Taylor, morning host of KGAY 106.5 & 92.1, for Out and About at Miralon on Saturday, March 22 from 10 am–12 pm, at MiraBar in Palm Springs. Meet John, tour builder models by Gallery Homes and Vitality by Lennar, and enter to win a bike—no purchase necessary. Enjoy smash burgers from Papa Headz, corn hole, indoor games, free fitness classes from 10:30–11:15, and morning drinks like Bloody Marys and mimosas at the MiraBar. Explore the amenity center with community ambassadors and soak in this fun and interactive event! More info

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Canopy in the Wild feat. DJ Galaxy

Get ready to party in the jungle at Canopy Wine Lounge on Saturday, March 22 from 6–9:30 pm! This tropical bash invites you to dress in your best jungle-inspired attire, from leopard print to safari gear—or even a gorilla suit. Dance the night away to the incredible beats provided by DJ Galaxy Admission includes a refreshing welcome splash, with delicious bites, glasses, and bottles available for purchase. Get tickets

Bibliopride Book Fair

Celebrate LGBTQ voices at Biblio Pride Day with Gay authors selling gay books on Saturday, March 22 from 1–4 pm at PLAY Café & Lounge. This exciting event gathers dynamic authors in LGBTQ literature, showcasing works across genres like romance, mystery, fantasy, and history. Meet writers such as Blake Allwood, Adam J. Ridley, and Shane K. Morton, and explore stories that inspire and unite. Enjoy a day of literary discovery, engaging conversations, and community celebration! More info

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Women’s Tea Dance at the Palm Springs Surf Club

Enjoy a fun-filled afternoon at the Women’s Tea Dance on Sunday, March 23 from 3–6 pm at the Palm Springs Surf Club. This free event features music by Ay-Lex Song, creating a lively atmosphere for dancing and socializing. Hosted by The Center, it’s a great opportunity to connect with the community and enjoy a relaxed Sunday afternoon. More info

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Get our Free Visitor Map & Guide

Check out the latest edition of the K-Gay Desert Guide Visitor Map & Guide! To help you find everything you need as a visitor or local, we feature the top places for Food & Drink, Nightlife, Shopping, Attractions, Gay Resorts with passes, Dispensaries, and other services. Look for the latest edition at businesses and newsstands around town, or browse it online right here!

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LOOKING AHEAD

Sage & Friends Honor Katherine Forrest and Brad Fuhr

Join SAGE & Friends Palm Springs for an inspiring evening on Monday, March 24, from 6–8 pm at Living Out Palm Springs, as they honor Katherine Forrest and KGAY Desert Guide owner Brad Fuhr for their contributions to LGBTQ+ life in Palm Springs and beyond. Celebrate their dedication and impact with a night of recognition and community spirit. Don’t miss this opportunity to acknowledge and appreciate their valuable efforts in making a difference! More info

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Start Your Engines: The Vault’s Automotive Masterpieces

Whether you’re an automotive aficionado, design enthusiast, or simply looking for a fantastic night out: on Tuesday, March 25, from 5–7 pm, experience an unforgettable evening of opulence and allure at Start Your Engines: The Vault’s Automotive Masterpieces. Nestled in the heart of BIGHORN, The Vault opens its doors to showcase Europe’s finest cars, vintage Americana models, and unique automobiles from around the globe, all to benefit the Palm Springs Art Museum. Enjoy delicious cocktails, delectable hors d’oeuvres, and high-energy music as you marvel at the automotive masterpieces. Get tickets

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Drugs Happen, But Death Doesn’t Have To

Join an open and honest conversation about reducing drug-related harm and navigating the physical and legal risks of substance abuse at Hunters Nightclub on Monday, March 24, 6–8 pm. This panel discussion features local law enforcement and addiction support professionals sharing strategies to prevent overdoses, connect individuals with resources, and build trust within the community. More info

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• Fashion Week El Paseo
  Mar 14–19 at The Gardens on El Paseo
• Tastes & Sounds of Cathedral City: Radio Ready w/TKB Food Truck
  Tue. Mar 18 at 5:30 pm at Cathedral City Amphitheater
• Home Again – A Tribute to the Music of Carole King
  Thu. Mar 20 at 8 pm w/The Desert Symphony at the McCallum
• ONE-PS Picnic & Community Expo
  Sat. Mar 22 from 11 am–2 pm at Ruth Hardy Park
• Canopy in the Wild feat. DJ Galaxy
  Sat. Mar 22 from 6–9:30 pm at Canopy Wine Lounge
• Desert X 2025
  Mar 8–May 12 at Various Locations Throughout Coachella Valley
• How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying
  Mar 12–29 at Revolution Stage Company
• Jesus Christ Superstar, presented by CVRep
  Mar 5–23
• Tootsie The Musical, presented by Desert Theatreworks
  Mar 7–30 at the Indio Performing Arts Center
• Honky Tonk Angels, presented by Desert Theatreworks
  Feb 1–Mar 30 at the Indio Performing Arts Center
• God of Carnage, presented by Desert Ensemble Theatre
  Mar 14–23 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center
• Palm Desert Food & Wine
  Mar 20–23 at The Gardens on El Paseo
• SOAR! Presented by Ice Dance International
  Sun. Mar 23 at 3 pm at Berger Foundation Iceplex at Acrisure Arena
• Start Your Engines: The Vault’s Automotive Masterpieces
  Tue. Mar 25 from 5–7 pm at BIGHORN Palm Desert
• Rock the Park Rescheduled: ABBAFAB (ABBA Tribute Band)
  Wed. Mar 26 at 7 pm at Downtown Palm Springs Park
• “Keep Calm and Sing On,” presented by A Cabello Men’s Vocal Ensemble
  Wed. Mar 26 and Wed. Apr 2 at 7 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
• Coachella Valley Home Show
  Fri.–Sun. Mar 28–30 at the Riverside County Fairgrounds
• Art Walk at the Riviera Resort & Spa
  Fri. Mar 28 from 5–7 pm
• Trans Pride 2025 “Empower and Employ”
  Sat. Mar 29 from 11 am–4 pm at the Palm Springs Pavilion
• The Chase – 31st Annual Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards
  Sat. Mar 29 from 5:30–8 pm at the Palm Springs Convention Center
• Desert Winds Freedom Band – “A Portrait of America”
  Sat. Mar 29 at 7 pm and Sun. Mar 30 at 2 pm at the Jewish Community Center
• Rock the Park: Vegas McGraw (Tim McGraw Tribute)
  Wed. Apr 2 at 7 pm at Downtown Palm Springs Park
• Kelli O’Hara – Broadway’s Brightest Stars Series
  Thu. Apr 3 at 7 pm at the McCallum Theatre
• Desert Legends Women’s Weekend
  Apr 4–6 at Hotel Zoso, Indian Canyons, & Demuth Park
• The Diary of Anne Frank, presented by Desert Theatreworks
  Apr 4–13
• Renée Elise Goldsberry – Broadway’s Brightest Stars Series
  Tue. Apr 8 at 7 pm at the McCallum Theatre
• KGAY Night with the Coachella Valley Firebirds
  Wed. Apr 9 at 7 pm at Acrisure Arena
• Brian Stokes Mitchell – Broadway’s Brightest Stars Series
  Thu. Apr 10 at 7 pm at the McCallum Theatre
• Modern Men: The ’70s Show
  Apr 11, 12 & 13 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center
• World Art Day Festival
  Sat. Apr 12 from 10 am–2 pm at Palm Springs Downtown Park
• House Party PS: Lights! Camera! Action! – Celebrating Stars of the Silver Screen
  Sat. Apr 12 from 5–8 pm, Deepwell Estates, Palm Springs
• Leslie Odom, Jr. – Broadway’s Brightest Stars Series
  Sat. Apr 12 at 8 pm at the McCallum Theatre
• Glow with Pride at the Living Desert Zoo & Gardens
  Thu. Apr 17 from 6:30–10 pm
• Disney Pride in Concert, performed by Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus
  Apr 24–27 at the Annenberg Theater